May 27, 2019
Most of us have never witnessed
the full expression of masculinity, a WILD MAN in his full power.
This is not the violent man who harms himself and others or the man
who feeds his base desires by operating out of selfish gain. We’re
talking about the WILD MAN who is unafraid to express any emotion,
including guttural cries of pain and ecstatic screams of joy. This
tenacious force has largely been shamed, mocked, and put down by
society. But, together we are reclaiming the WILD MAN and allowing
him to gift the planet once again. Brother, are you with
us?
Show Notes:
THE WILD MAN has gone missing in
our modern society, replaced by polished, manicured, good little
boys who color inside the lines and play by the rules given to
them. Modern man has been neutered into mediocrity by a culture who
decided FOR US that our true expression of manhood was too
much
- It’s
been beaten out of us
- Shamed out of us
- Stereotyped. Mocked. Satirized.
Punished.
- It’s
been disciplined into obedience by men and women who were afraid of
it. Who didn’t understand that the full expression of masculine
energy is as beautiful and alive as it is powerful
The essential masculine contains
the raw power and energy to protect and provide for his
people
- The
WILD man who embodies this raw, masculine power will go to whatever
lengths necessary to protect and provide
- It’s
in our DNA. At one point in time, our WILDNESS is what made us
great.
- It
allowed us to ascend the food chain and become the dominant species
on this planet
- It
allowed us to protect our families from outside threats, to
withstand drought, famine, and disease
But, of all these qualities that
have disappeared from the modern man, the one that impacts ALL OF
US the most, is man’s ability to express himself
- The
FULL RANGE OF MASCULINE EXPRESSION
- The
unmistakable joy of victory
- The
guttural cry of grief from loss
- The
ROAR of anger and the bellows of pain
- Without these expressions, we become ticking
time bombs waiting to blow
I’ve talked about this before,
early on in the MMM’s, how one of the greatest travesties of man is
bottling up our emotions and saving them for a nuclear
explosion
- You’ve heard the story about the family man who
one day decides to kill his whole family, and himself, out of
“nowhere"
- These
are not BAD men. These are not men who had a secret life that
nobody else knew about.
- These
are ordinary men who were never taught how to channel their energy,
never given permission to express themselves freely
- The
result…far greater pain and suffering for all of us
What if we encouraged our boys
to scream at the top of their lungs, to beat their chests when they
felt like it, to wrestle and challenge each other under the
watchful eye of uncles, older brothers, and mentors who were there
to guide them?
- Who
KNOW when an interruption is necessary?
- Who
KNOW what this boy, this young man is feeling?
- Who
KNOW how to raise one’s energy AND find one’s center
again?
My 3-year old son, a bona fide
WILD MAN, has reminded me of who I TRULY AM at my core. He reminds
me of the WILDNESS that has withered from within me as I settled
into to becoming a modern, domesticated man.
- He
BEGS me to meet his wild energy and to help him navigate his way
through it
- On my
BEST days, I can rise above my pre-programmed conditioning that
tells me to instill obedience and discipline in him
- On my
WORST days, I order him to “calm down”…which later breaks my heart
as I can recall so many telling me to do this as a
teenager
- I’m
still learning. Definitely not the perfect father. But, one who is
committed to raising a young man who has access to his full
masculine power and can manage it without harming himself or
others.
Reflection
Questions:
- What
is the COST of taming this wildness out of our DNA?
- What
if our wildness becomes necessary for our survival again…only we’ve
trained it out of our legacy for so long that our sons cannot
recapture it?
- What
would we do then?
It’s not too late. It’s still
there, buried in our DNA. Part of the untapped percentage of human
potential that we’ve determined to be “unnecessary”.
Now is the time for us to
responsibly AND unapologetically reclaim the raw, wild, masculine
man our people need.
Rising Man
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