Feb 13, 2020
Our guest today is Robert
Schwenkler, a deep somatic coach and co-founder of The Brotherhood
Community. Robert has been on both sides of the confidence
spectrum, earning him a unique opportunity to teach other men how
to connect honestly. His dating wisdom requires authentically
owning our desires, leaning into discomfort, and leading with
appreciation and curiosity. This episode is about more than dating
for sex or romance, it contains keys for having tight knit, loving
relationships with women in any context.
integrated man has access to all his emotions and parts - including
grief, joy, and childlike wonder.
is the dating landscape in 2020?
challenges single men face in today’s dating
I look like a creep?” and “Will I get rejected?” are common fearful
of the first steps is getting clear on what you want from sex and
important is sex to you and your life?
sex makes her life immeasurably better, and vice
need to feel safe for sexual and romantic exploration
hiding your sexual desires makes you unsafe.
can’t be done at home behind a screen, face to face interactions
are a must
your cup with other men - get guidance, wisdom, and express your
if not uncomfortable, then how useful is it?
does a man figure out what he wants?
- Expressing and owning our desires is
approaching a woman feels like death
- Flirting is joyful play, there is nothing to
expect from it
do I say?” - one of the first points of confusion for most
Connect with Robert:
Co-leader of The Brotherhood
their website for men’s workshops, online coaching and programs,
and much more.
For more info on his dating
program, check AuthenticDatingSecrets.com
Personal website with coaching info and all things
Instagram: @rrschwenkler and @thebrotherhoodcommunity
Facebook: Robert Raphael Schwenkler
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